a different perspective

The ideas in here might be considered controversial by some. They certainly are not your traditional mainstream way of thinking. And I doubt I will find anyone who 100% agrees with me on everything I wrote. I am not ever sure I always 100% agree with what I write in here. I apologize if some of what I write offends or scares you that someone or that I might think anything written in here. Take every idea with a grain of salt, and contemplate it just as an idea.

Monday, June 8, 2026

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gardendreamer

"Help us Create an Urban FoodForest Story inside th city"

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Houston, Texas, USA

50 - Female - Straight

Seeking: 18 - 98

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Relationship Seeking:

LTR, Friends, Travel Companion, Pen Pals, Just Curious, Other, Celibate Relationship, Celibate Marriage

Spoken Languages:

English

Marital Status:

Divorced

Spiritual Beliefs:

Conscious/Spiritual

Dietary Preference:

I eat anything

Drink?

I drink socially

Tobacco?

I don’t smoke

420 Friendly:

No marijuana for me

Often Exercise:

1-2 days/week

Energy Level:

Average

Education:

Some college

How Green?

Medium Green (mostly green lifestyle)

Political Views:

Prefer not to say

Have Children?

I have one child

Want Children?

Other

Living situation:

My kids live with me full-time

Willing to relocate:

Sun Sign:

Not sure

Rising Sign:

Not Sure

Moon Sign:

Not sure

Chinese Sign:

Not Sure

Ethnicity:

Other

Height:

5’0-5’3 (1.52 m - 1.62 m)

Body Type:

Slim/Slender

Ayurvedic Body Type:

Not sure

Weight:

Less than 100 lbs (45.45 kg)

Hair Color:

Brown

Hair Style:

Medium curly/wavy

Eye Color:

Brown eyes

Use eyewear?

Other

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Describe yourself (personality/attitude/passions/beliefs):

Originally before 2026, I was looking for someone to outbid my neighbors out to buy my ex out and to help us do our dream to convert our family's property into a spiritual, sustainable, regenerative edible, zero waste oasis INSIDE a big city.

But sadly we lost that particular home...(Though It would be my dream to get that land back someday before I pass away..- one of the many top items on my bucket list you could say)..now if we can, we are hoping to save what little remains of our family's land, though for right now I ma a bit paralyzed by Moms dementia and my own struggle just to make ends meet until I can get more clients that are okay with my being on call with mom full time..sigh....

Sadly most folks on here only want to do this dream of ours OUTSIDE the city.

We are looking for the rare unicorn who would be up for the psychic and mental challenge it will take to create that kijd of symbiosis with nature INSIDE a big city.

So instead of leaving the city to find the healing of the spirit - to instead be up for the ultimate challenge of bringing a healing node of synergy right back INTO the city.

Creating a network of safe beautiful healing nodes WiTHIN the city. Starting with THIS city. Healing the cities from within.

A healing of the spirit from the inside out! ;)

But even if you would not be interested in that, perhaps there is still some way we can be of mutual help to one another.

I believe the universe put us in each other's pathway for a reason.

For a mutual exchange of energy in some form of another to help each other with each others dreams and goals!

Definitely any small way you would be willing to help make our dreams and vision we have for this very special little spot in the earth come true would be appreciated.. Even if it is something small way by telling folks about us or about our various media projects? Or by letting us offer to you one of our services..? Or finding some way we can be of service to you from our beautiful little teeny tiny little urban home. (Keep in mind Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder, so even though its beautiful to us - it might take you a change in perspective to see the beauty of both our ideas and our place. We are an acquired taste that takes time to learn the true beauty of ;)

Letting us and allowing us and helping us to convert our family's special little urban vortex spaces into a place that we dream about - these very special tiny spots on this earth where individuals can come together to learn about body awareness with a slight spiritual awareness, regenerative gardening, symbiotic living with nature, and being within a City - all at the same time ....

showing that it CAN be done INSIDE the city. -

on these very special spots of this earth that holds so so so much incredible meaning to me and my little family (grandma, me and kiddo)

(By the way, i am amazed how many folks keep missing this very important detail ->>>

- ->>>> What we wish to accomplish can only be done from WITHIN a city..

My personal mantra is:

These is our krineteagle's ABC's

Appreciate adventure, Allow awareness,

Acceptcept Awe and every variation of all of these

Breathe beauty, Be balanced

Choose Celebration

& compassionate centering

With many different variations in between...

The all powerful AND ..

Describe the type of person you'd like to meet:

inner wisdom

Half joking/half serious the kind of people is like to meet are clients .. bc in my world, good friends would be good clients if they could afford it and good clients also would be the best of friends with us . And these days, I think I am starting to believe that the person I am most likely to fall in love with and open myself up to would most likely be a soul who has been willing to be financially kind to my family. Its just something Ive started to notice about myself that those folks who have cared about our financial survival and freedom to do our dream seems to be the folks I am far more okay with giving up my precious resting time for... These days I am so exhausted by Moms dementia and the loss of our home, that I find it exhausting to be around people who just want my family's time and energy for nothing in return.. but that those who offer us even the tiniest bit of mental freedom with small tokens of being able to help support ourselves..those friends who want us to be able to have that sort of financial freedom with no strings attached - those are the friends who I tend to label as utterly priceless and to be taken are of.....

In some magical fantasy dream world, yes sure we would love for you to have the money to be a backer in helping to save our properties to help transform them into regenerative land that both teaches and helps to create an abundant oasis for both those who help out on the land but also to others who are in need.., sure that's be nice......

Buttttt my family & i also wish to find souls that we can help out in our own small way from way over here in our own little mini world.

I hope you will let us encourage you in your own dream and get to stay friends with you over the years... :)

I believe we were put across each other's pathway for a reason.

That we were meant to help each other out in some way or another.

yes sure, we want to save our family's land & pray that we will find a relationship with someone who will allow us to keep being able to live in our home and do our projects

but our family as a family unit likes to be allowed to help others to heal and feel safe as well...

We believe in inner wisdom & patience. We believe in communication & empathy & active listening & body listening

We want to be allowed to use our skills and knowledge to be of service to you

Do you ever feel like you just need to mentally hugged and loved, even if you are not being hugged physically?

It may be awhile before I feel fully safe and secure and empowered again to hug people in person again, but mentally hugs are amazing as well!

Right now though what I hope for is friendships whom I CAN feel safe with.. and where I know we can mutually be of help to one another.

People we can trust to help us keep our dreams safe, who will accept us and love us as we are!,who will encourage us to do our projects, Who will reassurance and delight in our silliness & learning.

And who will let us help them in exchange for helping us in some of the ways we need help with as well.

A mutual exchange of help in each other's goals.

Describe the ideal relationship:

ideally, I want a relationship with a person who would actually be willing to help us to fund and or do our projects,

But kiddo & I also need people who are happy and content with just letting us help them in some way

- especially if you would be willing to value our company and our dialogue enough to help us out in some of the small ways we ask for help with...

Ideally you wouldnt need me to be connected in a sexual way.. But content with just allowing us to be friends with you?

Frankly I will be honest, i would prefer friends who would also be willing to be one of our holistic 'clients' as well who would be okay with helping us financially or with services in exchange for our own cheering you and helping you with your own goals

ideally you would allow me to be a celibate monk? At least until I am ready to be something different, but in meantime, I really do need you to just be happy with my whole family unit just being a special friend to you

admittedly eventually it would be nice to allow for the space for the connection to evolve into even more someday..

But it would need to be with someone who would be willing to allow for my passion for recording the world and for my connection to my family's property

Recognizing that they form a connection not just to me, but also to my family as single whole unit as well.

That we are all parts of a whole.

What are your relationship dealbreakers?

Ooooh I love this question bc over the years I've been learning about myself and come to realize I actually do have some dealbreakers

Dealbreaker 1)

Impatience, judgements, demands

- when people act impatiently with myself or with any members of my family, that tends to deter me from encouraging continued connection. My mother and I are extra slow and we will push your patience levels to its max.

- we have a rebellious nature and our instinct is to rebel when people make bossy or demanding or coercive requests

Although short term we are willing to put up with a lot, we don't tend to encourage folka if they are constantly in impatience or non-accepting or non-allowing with any of us.

Dealbreaker 2 - any requests for me to spend time with them without my family around. If that is a requirement, keep searching. Even if I am willing, the idea of that being requested I find offensive. I do not enjoy people's company if I am not being allowed to share it with my family. You might be enjoying having me to yourself , but I won't enjoy it.

If you want me to enjoy your company, my family has to be allowed to be around.

Maybe after a few YEARS of your being a close friend of the family, I might become more comfortable to be around you without them around, but I haven't found anyone that I've enjoyed more then my family yet ..and I ma not likely to bx the very request leaves me not comfortable around people - so please , don't even ask.

If you want me to feel comfortable with you, have it where the family loves you so much that I just becoming so accustomed to you that I don't think twice about your being around.

Dealbreaker 3)

anyone who requires sex with me

Dealbreaker 4)

not allowing us to have a digital back up memory so if you afraid of anything about you being digitally remembered, we would not be a good match

Dealbreaker 5)

anybody shouting verbally abusively or physically abusive statements. Any guilt trips about our being who and how we are. Any berating of us for the parts about us that are inconvenient to you. Any requirements for us to be different or better ...if that is what you need,.then please please find someone else please.

Thank you

What should a great date consist of?

Spendin time with you and my family in the garden

discussing science and or religion, spirituality or philosophy, the world around us and or history

and well whatever other mjsc bits of insights and wisdoms or observations or pondering our inner souls wish to share with one another

An topic that comes into being.

Or even just enjoying a peaceful quiet enjoying of each other's existence,maybe just meditating or doing some simple yoga, Qigong,taichi or some other form of bodymind listening?

Either way,

allowing me to simply be quietly purring away content like the kitty cat gets to do -- letting and even encouraging me to audio record the whole beautiful conversation of delight & joy & being

What do you like to do for fun/activities?

video, plant edible plants in my own garden, listening to my son converse with people, sharing life with my familly, eating yummy organic/sustainable meals, watching documentaries/films with my family, curling up with my family

What is something you've learned about yourself from a relationship?

It turns out i am actually picky about how I want to be allowed to live life

Share something unusual or extra special about yourself:

Also unusual: i treat kids like equal human beings and only respect the other adults who do the same and who never treat others as lesser human beings because of age, sex, race, or abilities.

i know how to cook without a recipe ((apparantly not every one is willing to do this..though i agree, having a rough idea of the ingredients does make a difference))

i have been body listening my whole life

important - why do we want to do what we want to do INSiDE our city? Read this below:

btw.. there is a question i often get asked in terms of the land we are trying to save.. and i realized that the answer is kind of something that leaves kiddo and I quite unique:

most people want to sell off their city land to buy something OUTSIDE of the city.. TAHT is NOT US!

we want to show how one can live a zero-waste, regenerative, food forest oasis sort of way in a symbiotic harmony with both the land and the people around them INSIDE a city, in just your typical everyday neighborhoods regardless of whether they have an HOA, or just whereever they are in the city.

Our need, drive, ambition, desire, what we care about : is to save our own home that we live in (any help towards this miracle would be much appreciated by friends and strangers alike..)

eventually we would like to save other places connected to our family as well - this would consists of 5 different sections in five very different parts of our town/city in Houston! Yes we know its Texas, but Texas has a lot of beauty in it.

Eventually the goal would be to save ALLLLLL FIVE parts. Three of which will could eventually pay for itself in a regenerative way with the vision we have for them.. while the other two more are so small,.they would more basically be used as a storage back up places and a free food forest for the local neighborhood more as a gift to the surrounding neighborhood, which are in some not so great food desert parts of town.

But what makes us unique I think is that we don't just want ANY piece of random land that we can work and that will bring money back.

Instead,

We want to work the land that MEANS something to us. This land. The land that we have a history and story with.

That is the land that holds an emotional meaning to us.

I know many many people will not be able to relate to this, but This land is more a part of our story then any human being ever..

and so we want to tell the story of our evolution of who and how we are using this land as the main tool to do this. THIS land, not some random other piece of new piece of land. but this one that holds our history of who, and how, and why we are the way we are.

it also includes the where we come from and what we are as well. it is a very very special land to us.. so we please request that you show respect to our wish and understand our reason well enough to not ask us: "but why not just sell and go somewhere else where you can own MORE,. and where it might be EASIER to do what you want to do. "

I have now explained why this land and not some other. - - It isn't about ease. or having more. - - it is about taking what we already have, on land that actually holds a deep meaning and a deep connection to our very essence,

and showing how it can be done on what is already here. inside OUR city.

For example, one of our most favorite places in the big bustling city of New York, is this small little rose/flower garden right next to a big street with tons of traffic and people, but when you walk into that little garden, your world becomes transformed and you enter another world, and your mind all but blocks out the noise surrounding the garden. you have entered a new world.. a respite .. a place to rest, recover, recoooperate, right then in the middle of the city. a little haven .. a regenerative haven that connects you back to earth and yourself.

now that is the dream... to create that in a place that holds meaning to US .

We want a relationship with someone who understands and accepts our dream and what we value.. which is why we have spent so much time trying to explain what we care about.

I so hope you will help us to do that on this land that means so so so so much to us.. please

thank you!

Even if it's just be being a friend,

or by following along on our journey through one of the online avenues we created, or by actually becoming an actual partner with us on this journey

ahh.. couple last detail that makes us rather unique.. um.. we do things SLOW..

like really super slow. so you will need a ton of patience with us. like it will be a test of your patience and acceptance levels.

final bit: it is a very long story, but I can no longer can drive a car .. so there's that...

And sadly, our world doesn't get to fully be functional again until we one day have access to a way of becoming independently mobile again.. so in any one wants to gift us an etrike (which doesnt require a driver's license) that we could drive mom around town in , that would be a humongous blessing and quite the gift of a type of functionality that so many take so deeply for granted.

When it was just kiddo and I, walking on foot or bus or bike was one thing, but with mom, whom we cannot leave alone at home anymore, something with 3 wheels is needed.

Sigh. Sigh.. sigh......

Describe your work/business and what it means to you:

ideally, some day we would like to share our very unusual edible garden

teach body listening

helping kiddo with design work

And ideally the investor will allow us to

convert the garage into a studio to be rented out to those who want to be experience a food forest oasis/retreat inside the middle of a city

Along with maybe renting out the garden as a yoga

Sunday, June 7, 2026

our family's dealbreakers

What are your relationship dealbreakers?

Ooooh I love this question bc over the years I've been learning about myself and come to realize I actually do have some dealbreakers

Dealbreaker 1)

Impatience, judgements, demands

- we have a rebellious nature and our instinct is to rebel when people make bossy or demanding or coercive requests

Although short term we are willing to put up with a lot, we don't tend to encourage folka if they are constantly in impatience or non-accepting or non-allowing with any of us.

If you want me to enjoy your company, my family has to be allowed to be around.

If you want me to feel comfortable with you, have it where the family loves you so much that I just becoming so accustomed to you that I don't think twice about your being around.

Dealbreaker 3)

anyone who requires sex with me

Dealbreaker 4)

not allowing us to have a digital back up memory so if you afraid of anything about you being digitally remembered, we would not be a good match

Dealbreaker 5)

Thank you

what we wish for in other people June 2026