big hug of deep appreciation for the core of your being!

written 8:48 am Jun 2019

written to a a friend who is has been a part of our life now for several awveral years now.. long before the divorce even occurred...  

big hug of deep appreciation for the core of your being!

  yes i did kind of sense that you would not yet be able to accept my offer, but i did still want to still express the offer so that you knew your being is celebrated. 

with every being you encounter and even many you have not yet encountered, you DO still alrwady have an "existing relationship", even with us..

but i totally do understand that you want and need to strengthen the ones that are already strong and closer to you first.

  i do acknowledge that your are currently more at the edge of our community or maybe i should rephrase it, "that we are currently only on the edge of your own community at this time".. or that our communities though deeply intertwined are not within the boundaries you have currently set for yourself.. and that spending any time with us right now would either be pushing your boundaries further then you would like at this time or even outside the boundaries you would like at this time.      and oh yes, i totally do validate  and accept and respect and even encourage your current boundaries...

when your boundaries are meant to include us, if ever, it will occur naturally and easily..

but either way we will celebrate your being flowing in and out of our lives on the periphery

and will always give you hugs and apprexiation when we meet.

People naturally flow in and out of each others circles, and based off of our mutual interests, i imagine our circles will crisscross quite often.. 

and each time you will be celebrated.. ;) :) :D