how to get a single mom to like you

somehow i thought this should be thr most obvious thing in the world ..

but somehow either this illudes some men, or they get it and its just a horrible mean way of telling a woman that they are not interested. 

i repeat. one of thr meanest most hirrible things you can tell a single parent is that you dont want to spend time with them bc they have a child.

if you like a woman or man and she/he has a kid and would love to spend some quality alone time with them then here is the trick:

you get along with their kids!

you talk about how you enjoy spending time with both of them.

you actually get both of them to laugh in your prescense ...
you enjoy chatting and laughing with both of them..

whatever you do, you never ever discipline or criticize their kids and yiu never ever criticize that parents choices.

you only give compliments and encourgaement and celebration and offer help.

occasionally sneaking pleased smiles or celebrating eyes lf awe and of encouragement to the mom (or the dad)

and voila!

the way to a mommas being, helping the kids feel safw and aplreciated and valued..

and there you go, you are home free

as long as you make sure you never critiicize..( not even in your mind (bc it will show in your body and microexoressions).) then you will be allowed and invited over oftrn and eventually get that most desired private time of the women in your arms.