This conversation mostly just holds my own answers as I left out most of the other persons questions/answer for discretion reasons:
I did leave in their questions when it helps explain my answers:
K is me
P equals the other person.
K: Oh wow, it's you.. lol...
So, who is you?
about 3 days ago
P:Thus is me
about 3 days ago
P:Are you a vegetarian
about 2 days ago
K: Nope can't afford to be.. besides too many things we would d miss out if we were required to be. We eat flexibly - whatever the people around us eat. You get to enjoy more tastes and explorations of life that way :)
about 2 days ago
K: Lol, I am a gardener, not a hunter..
about 21 hours ago
K: Have I found my prince on here yet - Lol, no, but this site is more for me to satisfy a desire to have hope in an idea that I know could exist, but which I know realistic probably doesn't exist on this site, lol.
K: But I believe in keeping an open mind and at least trying to make sure there is space for the universe to provide miracles, lol.
Yum.
about 21 hours ago
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K: Most definitely... Ourselves probably included.. I don't think my family takes much for granted, but we also would probably struggle quite a bit if the world really did fall apart. We have some knowledge but not enough of the skills
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K: Some have occasionally turned into clients of my non-intimate services, but for the most part I've just appreciated having the acquaintances that I have appreciated when they allow me to periodically check into see how they are doing over the years.
Not sure if we would call most of them friends, bc the only ones I would call friends are the ones who became actual friends of the whole family. Did any of them support us, no, just the occasional gift for the family.. .
A lot of acquaintances, once they have found their supposed "one" will disappear bc they feel like they shouldn't be talking to another female from this site once they have someone. That often leaves me a little sad.
There were a couple of folks who turned into life long friends for awhile there until time did its thing and phone numbers got lost or changed etc ..
technically I do not qualify for support for most of the people on here considering what most folks want on here from women.
Not sure if we would call most of them friends, bc the only ones I would call friends are the ones who became actual friends of the whole family. Did any of them support us, no, just the occasional gift for the family.. .
A lot of acquaintances, once they have found their supposed "one" will disappear bc they feel like they shouldn't be talking to another female from this site once they have someone. That often leaves me a little sad.
There were a couple of folks who turned into life long friends for awhile there until time did its thing and phone numbers got lost or changed etc ..
technically I do not qualify for support for most of the people on here considering what most folks want on here from women.
about 19 hours ago
P: well you are going at it from a interesting point of view for sure!
about 19 hours ago
K:Lol, grin. That does seem to be one of my signature traits in life.. looking at life from different points of views ..
Exhausting for myself at times, but apparently highly amusing for others.
As long as folks don't dislike me for my different way of thinking, and it helps lighten another person's day, I'm happy 😌
I like to be of use to folks in my own way. Ideally paid for my time, but still without the confidence to ask folks for that on here, though I have been trying on youtube to try to imagine I have confidence enough to ask for something back for my time.
I am told confidence will come someday. Lol. I look forward to that day....
Exhausting for myself at times, but apparently highly amusing for others.
As long as folks don't dislike me for my different way of thinking, and it helps lighten another person's day, I'm happy 😌
I like to be of use to folks in my own way. Ideally paid for my time, but still without the confidence to ask folks for that on here, though I have been trying on youtube to try to imagine I have confidence enough to ask for something back for my time.
I am told confidence will come someday. Lol. I look forward to that day....
about 19 hours ago
Oh, lol, being on here is definitely not ones best bet for the average woman, unless you are escort. Now, If that was my trade, wow, then I'd probably be a millionaire by now. It really is shame I am not mentally set up to be able to do that skill set. I would be set for life years ago if I had been willing enough to do that trade on here.
about 18 hours ago
I imagine farm boys know a fair amount more about life than city born men .
about 18 hours ago
City born men, stereotypically speaking of course, are a bit naive about "life"...
about 18 hours ago
P:Yea I would agree..... I find there are a number of kinds of women on here. #1 - ladies under 25 just trying to sell pics and videos to pic up a little drinking / shopping money.#2 - ladies I would consider in the escort realm that use this as their main source of income (actually less than 15%).......#3 single moms struggling post divorce trying to pay bills #4 - women who are tired of the dating scene..... can't find a good man to date... dont want a full time man and the drama that goes with that..... and just want to meet a nice guy for a little fun... whether dinner or weekend getaway or just discreet fun and there are alot of those. I dont judge anyone - everyone has their reason for being on here.
about 18 hours ago
K:And which kind of those women do you prefer?
I wonder how many of the single women just trying to pay the bills eventually become more like the #2..
I wonder how many of the #4 are really in fact wanting something more , but don't know how to ask for it or feel like they have to play a role to get any of the men interested in them. Or just doing that until they can find what they are looking for ..hoping that one of those "nice guys" will on day finally be "the one" for them....
By the way, I appreciate and like that you listed off the type of women you have encountered. I like hearing that kind of insights into world I will never get to truly know about being one of the women. If I ever do become a wealthy person , I would so love to come back on here and see what life is like from your side of the world.. that is actually a fantasy of mine to be able to one day be the person who is looking for someone like me.. and finding the "me's" out there in the world and helping them towards their own dreams..
I wonder how many of the single women just trying to pay the bills eventually become more like the #2..
I wonder how many of the #4 are really in fact wanting something more , but don't know how to ask for it or feel like they have to play a role to get any of the men interested in them. Or just doing that until they can find what they are looking for ..hoping that one of those "nice guys" will on day finally be "the one" for them....
By the way, I appreciate and like that you listed off the type of women you have encountered. I like hearing that kind of insights into world I will never get to truly know about being one of the women. If I ever do become a wealthy person , I would so love to come back on here and see what life is like from your side of the world.. that is actually a fantasy of mine to be able to one day be the person who is looking for someone like me.. and finding the "me's" out there in the world and helping them towards their own dreams..
about 18 hours ago
P:well I never see anyone under 30 years old. I'm sure some would love to find a guy long term...... just think it's not in the cards. But some do I'm sure. You should meet someone sometime - you might surprise yourself
about 18 hours ago
K: Oh we have met many people :) and our family quite enjoy meeting people -- in fact, the ones that have become the 'friends of the whole family' usually are such folks.. ((though we do have a couple of people are friends with us whom we have never met officially in person. Very kind people who live in a different city than we do. ..))
admittedly we have only had a handful of new people from this particular site over since COVID and since mom came under our care , but we have never rejected people meeting us (back before then now now) ..
it's just, in general , meeting us is not something most people from this site are even brave enough to even consider doing, now that we care for Mom full-time..
oh, but those who are brave enough ... we definitely love the company of those who are brave enough to meet our family in the garden. Without fail, they tend to be Amazing people, knock on wood
In fact, It's hard to imagine someone who is brave enough to do that kind of thing to being someone who isn't a worthwhile kind person of person to know, knock on wood of course ...
After my ex , we stopped being so scared of people. Bc one realizes after that, you can never truly know anyone .. ... if even the most trustworthy person closest to you can hurt you, then anyone could be like that, so one has to automatically assume that everyone has their good side and their bad side...
and just hope that you bring out the good in each person...
That's really all any of us can do, I think...
it's just, in general , meeting us is not something most people from this site are even brave enough to even consider doing, now that we care for Mom full-time..
oh, but those who are brave enough ... we definitely love the company of those who are brave enough to meet our family in the garden. Without fail, they tend to be Amazing people, knock on wood
In fact, It's hard to imagine someone who is brave enough to do that kind of thing to being someone who isn't a worthwhile kind person of person to know, knock on wood of course ...
After my ex , we stopped being so scared of people. Bc one realizes after that, you can never truly know anyone .. ... if even the most trustworthy person closest to you can hurt you, then anyone could be like that, so one has to automatically assume that everyone has their good side and their bad side...
and just hope that you bring out the good in each person...
That's really all any of us can do, I think...
about 17 hours ago
So , if you are ever in town, we definitely invite and welcome you to come meet us out in our front garden..
that is, 😁 saying our garden still exists by then, lol.
.. Though that is the goal.. to save the garden , lol ..
But yes , definitely, if you are ever in Houston, we highly encourage you to be brave enough to meet our little onclave in our sweet little front garden. (Esp if you can visit before the freeze wipes it out for the year, lol. ) grin. :)
that is, 😁 saying our garden still exists by then, lol.
.. Though that is the goal.. to save the garden , lol ..
But yes , definitely, if you are ever in Houston, we highly encourage you to be brave enough to meet our little onclave in our sweet little front garden. (Esp if you can visit before the freeze wipes it out for the year, lol. ) grin. :)
about 17 hours ago
P:Well I will take a pass - been fun chatting w you. I wish you wild success in your process - I think I will stick w mine!
about 17 hours ago
K:Ah well, sorry to hear that. It was an enjoyable conversation.
If your ever do change your mind, feel free to look us up .. you would probably be able to find us online by typing in our names. (Ah , wait, we never got to that part. Ah well.) Just look up hoping for a garden some day into Google, you will probably find us.
We do hope you will have the chance in life to catch and release many beautiful fish, so to speak, both figuratively and In actuality.
Many Happy Blessings, sweet person. :)
If your ever do change your mind, feel free to look us up .. you would probably be able to find us online by typing in our names. (Ah , wait, we never got to that part. Ah well.) Just look up hoping for a garden some day into Google, you will probably find us.
We do hope you will have the chance in life to catch and release many beautiful fish, so to speak, both figuratively and In actuality.
Many Happy Blessings, sweet person. :)
about 16 hours ago
P:Can I ask? Is this a commune of people or just you and your kids?
about 16 hours ago
K: Lol, what a fascinating question, lol.
Umm, did you not read my profile, lol. It's just me, mom and kiddo, lol..
Umm, did you not read my profile, lol. It's just me, mom and kiddo, lol..
about 16 hours ago
P: I did read your profile - a little long - a little confusing - and your messages were very interesting. I guess I have never conversed w someone of your curious intellect
about 15 hours ago
K: Lol, I think that is a compliment? Yes, my writing style can be a bit confusing. Kiddo is often telling me that.
Often for super delicate important emails that go out, I am not allowed to send them until he has proofread and rewritten them to be more succinct and understandable bc of my tendency to be stream of consciousness style writing.
My videos are a bit like my writing as well...I think I must just think funny..or differently than the rest of the world does?
Hopefully the fundraisers we put out into the world are written okay enough though that some folks can relate to them enough to reach their hearts enough to get the donations we need. (Please put in a prayer for us that we will find a way to have them reach over a million people and that some of those folks will out in enough of a donation that we will succeed with our dream. )
Often for super delicate important emails that go out, I am not allowed to send them until he has proofread and rewritten them to be more succinct and understandable bc of my tendency to be stream of consciousness style writing.
My videos are a bit like my writing as well...I think I must just think funny..or differently than the rest of the world does?
Hopefully the fundraisers we put out into the world are written okay enough though that some folks can relate to them enough to reach their hearts enough to get the donations we need. (Please put in a prayer for us that we will find a way to have them reach over a million people and that some of those folks will out in enough of a donation that we will succeed with our dream. )
The endeavor we have decided to do -- the Putting ourselves out there like that for a dream. It's intense. And nerve-racking when the doubts creep in, and exciting when we fill ourselves back up with hope ..:)
about 4 hours ago
P: So in one sentence what are you trying to accomplish ? And in less than 10 words how much money do you need?
about 4 hours ago
K:
to raise up enough through a fundraiser to save/buy back our family's home - 1) so that we don't get kicked out of our family's home of over 50+ yrs, and 2) so that from this ideal space that hold such special meaning to us, we can then teach others about holistic regenerative foodforest living and bodymind appreciation skills while being connected to nature
To actually buy back the home, 700k.
about 23 minutes ago
to raise up enough through a fundraiser to save/buy back our family's home - 1) so that we don't get kicked out of our family's home of over 50+ yrs, and 2) so that from this ideal space that hold such special meaning to us, we can then teach others about holistic regenerative foodforest living and bodymind appreciation skills while being connected to nature from within an urban setting .
To actually buy back the home, 700k.
To actually buy back the home, 700k.
about 22 minutes ago
Our home is in the most perfect ideal location to accomplish the second half of that goal most effectively.. we are located in a suburban neighborhood with apartment complexes surrounding us whose tenants go for walks and walk right by our home as they come home from work, school, or the nearby store. We are in a prime teaching location and can benefit the world most from our particular location.
Plus it's our family's home of over 50+ years and with moms dementia, the only place she still sort of knows. Or at least her body does. Its also where I gain my strength from.
Once we have saved our home the next goal will be make sure what happens to us, can be prevented from happening to othe people. So once our home is saved, we won't stop there... We will keep fundraising for a nonprofit we have created to make sure others will be able to the help and care we wish we had been able to receive. We are doing the finishing touches in that website to launch the nonprofit soon and we can shar that with you when it's ready. The long term goals are big
The short immediate term goal:
network, get to know people, fundraise , whatever we can do (while caring for Mom full time and despite my mental disabilities) to:
Save our home so we don't get kicked out.
Plus it's our family's home of over 50+ years and with moms dementia, the only place she still sort of knows. Or at least her body does. Its also where I gain my strength from.
Once we have saved our home the next goal will be make sure what happens to us, can be prevented from happening to othe people. So once our home is saved, we won't stop there... We will keep fundraising for a nonprofit we have created to make sure others will be able to the help and care we wish we had been able to receive. We are doing the finishing touches in that website to launch the nonprofit soon and we can shar that with you when it's ready. The long term goals are big
The short immediate term goal:
network, get to know people, fundraise , whatever we can do (while caring for Mom full time and despite my mental disabilities) to:
Save our home so we don't get kicked out.
about 13 minutes ago
Do I expect to find a love who can do that? No.
Though I won't be physicallyintimate with anyone until my family and I have accomplished our immediate goal. That was promise I made it myself.
My family and I: We can provide attentivenes, admiration, ease of mind, acceptance, appreciation, certainty, laughter, joy, celebration.. but thats the extent of it..
What we do hope to find on here, really are just some nice friends of the family cheering us on.
And maybe a few folks who might help us with our goal, but I don't how much help anyone on here could actually be...
Even most people on here have the kind of leverage or resources that we would need to pull off a single person actually helping us.
Besides, there is something so empowering and exciting about a fundraiser -- leaving us feeling way less alone than individual people tend to do. More accepted I guess? Less helpless...
Though I won't be physicallyintimate with anyone until my family and I have accomplished our immediate goal. That was promise I made it myself.
My family and I: We can provide attentivenes, admiration, ease of mind, acceptance, appreciation, certainty, laughter, joy, celebration.. but thats the extent of it..
What we do hope to find on here, really are just some nice friends of the family cheering us on.
And maybe a few folks who might help us with our goal, but I don't how much help anyone on here could actually be...
Even most people on here have the kind of leverage or resources that we would need to pull off a single person actually helping us.
Besides, there is something so empowering and exciting about a fundraiser -- leaving us feeling way less alone than individual people tend to do. More accepted I guess? Less helpless...
about 4 minutes ago
Correction: Even most people on here *DON'T* have the kind of leverage or resources that we would need to pull off a single person actually helping us.
Ie, why we just hope to find friends of the family on here, lol..
Ie, why we just hope to find friends of the family on here, lol..
about 3 minutes ago
First paragraph has your "one sentence" and amount in "less than ten words.. "
Following that were just my afterthoughts.
Following that were just my afterthoughts.
about a minute ago
...... End of conversation part that I am sharing
If this conversation intrigued anyone or anyone found it interesting, could you please donate to our fundraiser:.
www GoFundMe.com/hopingforagarden
Nov 2025
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