Are you afraid of women? Or afraid to touch a woman?

A very interesting thought occurred to me.
For the most part I am wary of men's wanderimg hands.
See, I am one of those people who minus a very rare exception (whixh is starting to become more commom as the years go on), in general used to encourage giving hugs away.. well at least to anyone i considered a family friend.

But, more and more, often I encounter people who will take that as opportunity to let their hands "wander" and that gives me the slivers/shivers, and often i feel very uncomfortable for days after (sometimes even longer). 

And even if I am polite, it does not change much.  Luckily i dont encounter these people too often.

  because i feel like these people take without asking.. and are impatient in their deaperate eagerness to want to be able to explore women.

And then when I go online, there are all these men who have no interest in being friends unless they think there is hope of going beyond something platonic.

And all this left me really misssing two friends from college days who were so afraid of touching a woman or being touched by a woman that it was hard for them to be around me at first.  And yet wih patience and consideration, I was able to help them not only become comfortable with me but also all women.  To no longer be afraid.
But the best part about these friends, is that i did not feat them.  I felt safest around them.  Bc they were always the most respectful when it came to touch. And when they did finally feel comfrtable with me, even then they stayed respectful and considerate and kind.

It was an incredibe gift to be able to help them overcome their fears.

And i often womder, could i do that for a living?  Would anyone be willing to let me help them with that and be willing to in return help me out finacially by paying me for that aid?

Do you know someone who could benefit from that?

Could you?

Originaly writtrn 2:32 pm
Originally published 2:34 pm oct 23,2019